Thanks All for the previous participation in these series, i know i have Awesome Followers, and to all the new stumblers on my blog, please dont forget to leave a comment and follow. thanks.
Soooo, this is a series in which i give two options, there is really no right or wrong answer, its all subjective according to the kind of person you are, all you have to do is just leave a comment on what option you would prefer to be in.
one of my favorite books of all times "Venus in Furs" has a line in it that struck a chord with me... and it goes..... "in love, there is no equality, it is either rule or be ruled" sooo im going to extrapolate on this point.
sooo here goes
A) would you rather be in a Relationship that your spouse is head over heels in love with you and every single thing that you do but the problem is that you don't have the same intensity of feelings for your spouse.... you might love them, but its an unequal distribution of love, its more like you on the love sharing scale ==
YOU => 30% love, SPOUSE => 70% love.
i hope you get my gist?
OR
B) would you rather be in a Relationship with your spouse where you are completely head over heels, your spouse tells you to jump and you ask how high, there is absolutely nothing your spouse can do wrong, you can not imagine living life without him/her.... but the problem is your spouse doesnt share the same intensity of love with you. on the love sharing scale it is more like
YOU => 70% love, SPOUSE => 30% love.
im certain one way or another, we have found ourselves in a position similar to one or the other, or we may have experienced both, sooo if you were to make a decision, what would you rather be in???
you thoughts and comments are appreciated. Thanks Ciao.
As always, i would updated it with my own personal preference much later.
This is easy, i'm going with option A
ReplyDeleteA
ReplyDeleteMy mama always taught me to go with option A *though not with those specific percentages lol*
ReplyDeleteOption A please!
ReplyDeleteI would have to go with Option A.
ReplyDeleteReading the differences between the percentages could possibly make someone come off seeming... hmmm... selfish. BUT, in my defense I think I have experienced Option B enough to appreciate Option A far more than what it would seem.
With that being said, I would have faith that my percentage would eventually grow farther than 30%
no seriously this is the easiest one yet
ReplyDeleteA
hmmmm, everyone seems to think it was an Easy Question.. though i kind of disagree, in relationships where one person is more dotting than the other, and there is hardly any balance or share of Love, there tends to be complacency, then there is the contempt that eats in the back of your mind, thinking that, i can do better than this doling idiot im with, you start to get restless mentally, emotionally and physically. the mere sight of the person would begin to irritate you. Sooo, even though you might want to pick option A, it might be a safe choice initially, but after a period of time spent with this person, you loss respect and you disregard the feelings of the person.
ReplyDeletethese are just my thoughts.
this may be true, but wouldn't you rather be the person who did the leaving than the one who got left?!?
Deletehey, left this on LadyNgo's but not sure u got it. Check this link for they reply thing http://www.mynewhitmanwrites.com/2012/01/blogger-now-supports-nested-or-threaded.html
ReplyDeleteThanks Dear, just did it.
DeleteI've been in both A & B situations.. It feels good to be head over heels in love with someone.. but it feels like shit when you realize that they don't love you nearly as much.. LOL,
ReplyDeleteso for selfish reasons, I'd prefer A. Having that support, I have found, drives me to do better.
As Pink said, 'Pain is painful'
ReplyDeleteI've visited B too many times, my vote is for A.
Been there and done that with both options .....so with clarity of mind I'll take A......yes A.....and I mean A.
ReplyDelete