WHY Men and Women can Never be FRiends: MALE PERSPECtive

Soooo, i guess its better to clarify this post, this is from a males perspective... but as they say, you need 2 people to be in a relationship, sooo if one person is in a relationship and the other person is not in a relationship, then it isnt considered a relationship. 


im posting this later than i woulda liked.... but you know the same ol excuse im about to give, "i was Busy"... lol. Sooo happy New Month i guess. I dunno February just seemed extra long (duhhhh leap year), i guess it gave us one more extra day of black history. 
My last post was intentionally intended to be a short post, but for some reason, my fingers wouldnt let me stop typing. maybe that was just an early april fools for all my readers.... sooo April Fools then. what can i say, i guess im just that revolutionary and rebellious, April fools in February, Genius idea. i should patent that idea. "Thats Hot" #paris.hilton.voice.


now i swear this post is actually short, no tricks up my sleeve. #evilgrin





Soooo, on to the topic, I dont believe men and women can ever really be friends, at least not in the sense in which i describe and understand friendships. i know alot of females would be like, im talking that Bullshit, and they would probably say "But im a female, and i have a lot of Male friends" and to that i answer.....WRONG, you are a female and you have a lot of Males who would sleep with you if you ever gave them the chance too. 
 you might answer, "but im not going to sleep with them, so that makes us just friends" and if you say that, that just proves my point. Because my understand of being friends with someone means that there is a platonic interest and relationship budding from both sides of the aisle, the fact that your male "friend" wants to sleep with you, means that it isnt plutonic on both sides of the aisle. If you had a female friend, and you guys were just friends, and she told you or expressed to you, that she wants to sleep with you, as a female, would you guys still be "friends"... i know it would change the dynamics of the friendship.


Just like how you cant be in a relationship successfully, if one party is not participating in the same relationship that you choose to participate in. Soooo, if you are a girl, and you are in a friendship with a guy and the guy has ulterior motives, then you cant be in a friendship sooo to speak. 
i mean, think about it, you cant be a female and think about sleeping with your female friends (Exception is lesbians) and if you happened to be thinking about sleeping with your female friends and you were a female, then im almost certain your female friends would stop being labelled your friends, so if that the case for female-female friendships, that has to be the case for female-male friendships. #imjustsaying. 


What i can say for certain is that 


As i guy (i cant saying that im speaking for all Guys), i hardly make acquaintances or sustain correspondence with females i find unattractive, soo that means that there is a high probability that when im meeting a new girl, the likelihood that i would ever want to keep in touch would be probably because she is attractive, Guys dont go over/across the room to introduce themselves to ugly ass girls, yes their personalities might be the Bomb, but we are visually stimulating creatures, if a girl is ugly, we aren't that enthusiastic about the introduction and sustenance of correspondence. Ergo that is why i feel 95% of Male-Female friendships are not true friendships, they are friendship that are just circumstantial because the Male liked the Female, the Female told the male "lets just be Friends" and the male figured he would stick around as a friend until she opens her Eyes and see him as more than a friend (though in actuality, the Guy usually gets stuck in the friendZone). too me, i think this is how 95% of all Male-Female friends are composed of.
i am not suggesting that there are no True male-female friendships, i do think there exist, but there arent that much prevalent. the situation is usually two things, its mainly that the Guy doesnt find the girl attractive at all (Basically, he thinks the girl is Fat or Ugly or Both) and the other situation of Male-Female friendships are composed of Gay inter-gender Relationships, like Gay Guy and Straight girl... 


If you think Guys and Girls could be friends and it could truly exist, i have one final Question for you...
Would you let your Boyfriend spend hours at a time alone with another girl (that he claims is his friend) and you wouldnt be suspicious or Jealous about it?


Well this is my 2 cents and my Opinions.... tell me what you think in the comments section




and lastly, i have been promising Poetry for awhile now so here you guys go


Poem
Everytime i wake up
it always feels like im on the dark side of the moon,
as we have oscillated 
from friends to lovers to friends back again
i have threatened my heart im moving on without it
but my heart recognizes my threats are empty as air
as it unwilling belongs to her
indefinitely
with the strings of failed Romances i have endured
her essence is my only true desire
with all the lines i have drawn across the sands of my logic
they have been scattered every fortnight
by the winds of my unreasonable emotions
the only part of her that belongs solely to me
is the warmth she leaves behind
on my rosey cheeks
everytime she kisses goodbye