im a lover of life, im a lover of soul and things that breathe, im a lover of love and like everyone else, i long to be loved.... i often get in the way of loving life truly with no restrictions, because i sometimes accept the limitations within society, im human so i err, that also means im unique, just like everyone else. :)
Tuesday, April 5, 2011
These are a Few of my Fav things part uno
Hey there, i almost didn't notice you.... well since you are here, you might as well have a sit and let me talk or type your eyes out as you read all my public letters to the world and whoever who cares. lol. it is April and i am feeling super Random, maybe because my subconscious is telling me that the weather is getting warmer and its getting closer to summer (its hard for me to be gloomy when its nice and warm). So i am in a very sharing mood today, and im going to let you in on a more personal level. tell you a few things about me and you could do the same if you want to. So, like warm weather makes me smile and brightens up my day, i also have a list of favorite things
that make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside. Things i love to do, whenever and where ever. im not going to list it in any particular order so here it goes
Kisses
hmmmmm, what can i say about kisses, i guess i am addicted to kisses, i am a kiss addict, Ok i have a better one.... i have a kissing problem (get it, like a drinking problem? i hope you are following, lol). i know im not putting this list in any particular order, but if i were to put it in an order, kissing would be top 3. I have always had a thing for a good kiss, yeah yeah yeah i know everybody thinks they are good kissers, but i genuinely believe so (im certain i can produce references upon request, lol). So, one thing about me is, i can tell who long a relationship or relations with a person i am involved with would last based on kissing. A good kiss goes a long way, so unfortunately but if i have great chemistry with a person, and during the first kiss we ever have, her kisses seem sloppy, all the chemistry we had in the beginning goes straight out of the window, im sorry but i think kissing is very important, and if i am to stay monogamously with a person, then i really have to enjoy kissing the person every time and i should always be reminded why i fell in love with the person every time we kiss. basically, if you are a great kisser then every time we kiss would always feel like the first time every time.
Good Movies
I am probably one the most selective movie critics i know, i am selective about the movies i watch, i am even more selective about the movies i call good. i have a criteria on which i judge whether a movie is good and what makes it good. See, the problem is, i hate watching movies that are fairly predictable, i hate watching movies which arouse cheat laughs by fart jokes, i hate watching movies which are social cliches. If i am going to spend about 2 hours of my human life on some movie, then it has to be worth my time. i have a short list of what my favorite movies look like and it goes something like this Memento, Donnie Darko, Amelie (french foreign movie), Closer, Dirty Pretty things, Requiem for a dream, Inception, Syriana, Man on the moon, Eternal sunshine of a spotless mind, Inception, Wall-E.... these are just a few of my favorite movies of the top of my head. I enjoy movies that have cliff hangers as endings, i hate hate movies which don't explore creativity, i like mind thrillers. The litmus test for movies is Avatar (blue alien people), if you think Avatar is a good movie, then i hate to say it, but i wouldn't trust you to pick out a movie for us to watch. Yes i said it, i hate Avatar, its not creative, its not a new theme that was a explored, it is basically a movie theme that has already been explored in Dancing with Wolves, the only difference is, this movies had a whole lot more money to throw around with computer Generated Graphics... which basically distracted us from how bad i honestly think the movie is. but thats just my opinion.
Good conversation
Yes everyone has conversation, but what exactly is good conversation? hmmm, its a bit hard to describe, but i know the feeling i get when im done having good conversation. its the type of conversation which is usually interactive, its never always one sided, it often involves playful banter, exchange of ideas and some sort of enrichment, you never leave good conversation feeling more ignorant than you started. if you leave a conversation and you feel like your IQ points dropped a few points, then thats definitely not good conversation. Good conversation could be about anything, and it could last from 5 minutes to even 3 hours, it doesn't have a time limit, and for the most part, time never is ever a factor when you are having good conversation. See, im not always someone who always converses, i am a sociable reserved person (yeah i know its an oxymoron but you gonna have to deal with it). Im basically not the person who converses easily, but when i find someone who i can have good conversation with, then you really see my face light up, so if i can have good conversation with you then i definitely would be keeping you around for a long time.
Long Hugs
Who doesn't like a long hug, well im not talking about those long uncomfortable hugs that you have with people that you start thinking to yourself (when would this person let go already), im referring to the long hugs you have from people you haven't seen in a while and people who you genuinely miss. Im a hugger, and there is something nice and warm about being able to feel a warm body pressing on to your own warm body and you knowing that the longing feeling you have is shared by both of you. though, i do notice that, my favorability to the hugs depend on how easily i can wrap my arms around the person, so there is a direct relationship with my eagerness to hug to the difficulty of being able to wrap my arms around the person. lol.
Caffeine
OMG, i was never a person who believed in this wonder addictive drug, but i just recently discovered this wonder drug, and it is the one thing that keeps me going through my hectic schedule. See, i have a full time job and i work overnights, i go to school during the day, so i am a full time student, i try my best to go to the Gym as often as 5 days a week with each session lasting 1 to 2 hours, i have an internship which i have to put in about 15 to 20 hours every week where i work, i try to lead somewhat of a social life, so at the end of each day, i have about 3 to 5 hours of sleep every day. So, when i wake up and while i am awake, i need caffeine to do two things for me.
1- It elevates my mood
2- It keeps me up and moving
so i need this wonder drug essentially to function in society.
Chocolate
What's not to love about Chocolate, it makes me happy, it taste good, and it is always a well deserved guilty pleasure for me. i have at least one form of chocolate every day. my Fav choco has to be Kit Kat or Ferro Ruche. i break the mold and i try a whole host of other things, i love chocolate chip cookies, i really like dark chocolate (i like how bitter sweet it is, it reminds me of life, first its sweet then its bitter). If you want to get on my good side, the best way to do that is get me some Chocolate, some nice rich yummy chocolate, and i would love you for as long as you supply me with chocolate. i appreciate chocolate gifts from people a whole lot more than the average person does.
So, these are just a few of my favorite things. so tell me what is yours?
i have a whole part two for this list, i would write it all out later, but this is all you get for now.
unfortunately, no new poetry for today. but i would leave you with one i wrote earlier in the life of my blog.
Poetry
Lets go save the world
or lets just be lazy and lay here together
smiles and kisses lining the walls of our sudden memories
as always
each kiss tells a strangely familiar story
her lips are my personal diary
and i am itching to kiss and tell all my secrets
every curve on her body is an undiscovered new world
by morning, i am her body's explorer
sway this way
lick that slowly
suck here gently
directions i so happily oblige too
my reward is every gentle moan she gives
this is a slice of bliss i long for whenever we are apart
what is the use of words?
when we have body language
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yaaay...to all huggers worldwide...lol
ReplyDeleteU musta really liked inception to mention it twice...
It was more like avatar to me tho...#justsayn
So wot was the deal, did the dude live or die?
I feel like u'r one of those ppl that always feels like his opinion is the best lol *jst saying*
ReplyDeleteI'm a hugger too so yaay!! :)
and fyi.. avatar is a good movie!! #okbye
Wow! Was this post written by a guy for a guy or by a guy for a girl? Thought it was a bit TMI for a guy and the things you love like Hugs and Chocolate are not usual likes for guys. I love caffeine too and i think avatar is a good movie.
ReplyDeleteAww, you are too cute. I heart hugs too, I stumbled upon your blog but I am happy I did. How do I subscribe to you by email?
ReplyDeletei love!!!!!!!!!! kissing and like you said the person has to be a good kisser,i loved avatar too it was pretty cool,good conversations work too dnt knw abt caffeine though did i mention i LOVE kissing lol
ReplyDelete@h well, i liked it, i didnt realize i mentioned it 2ce, well im too lazy to update my blog so its gonna have to stick. truthfully, im not too sure if he woke up or if he was still in a dream, but my guess is, he is still trapped in his dream.
ReplyDelete@kitkat.... well, yea im always right atleast 90% of the time, dont get me wrong, when i know i am blatantly wrong i admit that i am wrong, but i value my opinion the most. (well, everybody does)
fyi.... Avatar Sucked. #fact
@okeoghene .... its just a sincere post, it was written in that form. i dont think there is a Gender specificity for liking chocolate and hugs, i know we are socialized to think differently, but i prefer to break the mold.
@Anonymous.... thanks, most appreciated, i dont think i have an email subscribe button, but i would look into making one.
@mylife.... YEs kissing is very important and essential to relations with me. i didnt even know that there were people in the world who didnt like to kiss, until recently, now im going to actively stay away from people who are kissing allergic.
Aww, that's adorable. Ha ha :)
ReplyDeleteA great conversation can really be a form of meditation for most. :) I do love a great conversation
ReplyDelete-Gracie
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