the Best i Ever Had

A little while ago, i was having a Conversation with Mrs.  Married (thats the new name im gonna call the Married Woman from my previous post), and we started talking about Sex, Sexual history and Partners, and from my previous experiences, your Past on Sex is never a good thing to bring up the person you are currently fucking. Because quite frankly, people tend to get jealous, people start to ask questions and things just get very murky real quick. 

Anyways, Mrs Married starts asking Questions, like How many partners have i been with, What is the wildest place i have had sex and if i could tell her who the best sex i ever had was? i never understand why people ask questions which they may not like the Answers too... yeah i know sometimes im guilty of asking questions i may not enjoy the answer, but with Age, i have learnt to control my desire to be too curious, especially when its something i would rather not know... i often times subscribe to the whole "ignorance is bliss" school of thought.

Soo she brings these questions up and she insist i answer her. After about half an hour of back and forth i give in... im like "alright, i hope you know what you are doing asking me these questions, because you may or may not like the answers i would give to you" she nods confirming that she is a big girl and she can handle what ever answers i give. 

Sooo with the Partners Questions, i dont think i necessarily have a high count, but the definition of a High count of sex partners is all very Relative from person to person. My Sex number is close to the Number of my Age (hint: im legally able to drink in the US). when i told her my Number she gasped loudly and said that was too much (funny thing is i know a number of people within my range of counts) and she was like "i have only been with 6"... i wasnt too sure what to make of her number, nor the fact that she said her number soo proudly as if i was meant to go to hell for my own number (afterall she asked for my number, right?)

Soo we move on to the next Question, Wildest place i have done it? This seemed like a tricky Question, Because i noticed that the Older i become, the less Adventurous my locations tend to be. When i was abit younger, i explored having sex in the Car, the Stacks within my University Library, A Stairwell in an Apartment, a Neighborhood park During Daylight... but now all those Experiences seem like distant memories of a past life, and the only place i may even dare to explore now, would probably be Sex in a Car. I told her to pick whichever one out of the places i had mentioned (because i think they were all wild in their own right). She mentioned how her wildest place was in a MiniVan. 

Moving on the the last question i dreading, Who was the best i ever had? For a split second i had to decide whether i should tell her the absolute truth with all my answer, or i should just bend the truth a little and stroke her Ego. (dont give me that bullshit that Woman dont care about Egos, Anyways, Women do it to men soo why cant men Stroke female Egos too?) I figured i had been telling the truth soo far and i would hate to Lie at the End, then find out that i went to hell just because of my only Lie. I told her the truth, that it wasnt her and it was some girl i was with before i even met her. i wasnt sure whether she was shocked or Disappointed about my answer, but i had to remind her that she was the person who asked for it. She told me it was ok, and that her best was Some guy Before she Met her husband. She told me that for a split second that she expected me to mention her name as her best.... i thought it was cute that she thought that it would be her but i have been with a good amount of women, and i have realized that the more women you get to be with, the more you realize that its hard for the title of "best i ever" had to be practical. 

Ask any Man around, you almost cant tell the difference between the Girl A's Pussy and Girl B's pussy when you have a condom on (most times), Sooo sometimes, what makes a whole lot of a difference in sex has to deal with the kind of mental, emotional and sensual connection you have built with the person outside the bedroom, before you take it into the bedroom. 

And truthfully, there is nothing wrong with Good Sex, i explained to her that even though she may not be the "best i ever had", No one should feel bad about that. Good Sex is way more practical that Great Sex, and i believe i would rather prefer to be married to someone whom i had Good Sex with, among other things. 

this is the way i see Good Sex and Great Sex, Good sex is a Toyota Camry while Great Sex is a Ferrari, Good Sex is made for Daily driving, it is comfortable, it isnt soo Expensive that you need to sell an Arm and a Leg to maintain the good sex, it is Practical, Great Sex is unreasonable to drive everyday, it is only comfortable for the first 30 mins you sit in it, its too freaking Expensive to maintain.

thats my own Analogy on the whole issue. Every one dreams about Ferraris, but practically Speaking a Toyota Camry is the only way to go for the long haul. 

 Don't enter every relation expecting to be the best sex they ever had, be more practical... as long as its Good Sex you share with the person then thats good. Great sex has the power to erode your mind and cloud your Judgement. it blurs you from being able to differentiate whether what you have with the person is more than just sex. Sometimes Great Sex could compromise you as a person, it would let you make decisions against your better judgement.

So basically to sum up my point

Great sex is great for memories and personal experiences, but Good sex is for living.

i would rather choose Good Sex over Great Sex if i had to live with one for the rest of my life

when it comes to Questions about Sexual history, its best not to ask it... 

i probably could have been more Eloquent with my Conversation.... but sometimes, the English language mocks me in my head.

let me know what you think, am i right? or am i wrong?