When Falling in Love Really isnt An Option!!!!!

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Sooo, Everyone raves about falling in love, and how good that shit is supposed to be, but Frankly, i think i have put myself in some situations that i need to try and stay away from love and all its crazy bullshit. im in 3 darning scenarios that might and would complicate the possibility of falling in love and basically my love life. im going to make this post short because its 3Am in the fucking morning and every normal person is sleeping at this time and i should be doing that too. Soo this is going to be a summary jist.


scenario 1
i have known this girl for a relatively medium amount of time, she is basically one of the prettiest people i know and have laid Eyes on (no offense to all the other pretty people that are reading this statement). Well, truthfully, she is one of those pretty people who dont know exactly how pretty they are, probably because in High School she was a whole lot Chubby and she has always been a Dork. But 2 semesters before graduating college and she lost a ton of weight and kept a whole bunch of womanly Curves on her frame. She is smart and driven (nothing more sexy than a girl who can put sentences together).
She has alot of things going for her, but there are just a whole lot of things that arent going for US...
basically, she is a whole different culture from i am, she grew up in a very Religious Muslim Family, and in her Culture, her parents basically Have Arranged Marriages for the females (#wheretheydothat@?).... yeah,  all that shit got me puzzled like WTF....
we did sneak out for a few dates and we tried to make plans for future dates, but the last time we went out, we had to tell ourselves the truth, we both are attracted to eachother, but the truth is, if her Father Ever found out about me and about the Fact that i was Black, as nigerians usually say "it would be No Joking Matter".... sooo i decided to stop while i was ahead


Scenario 2
im have known this woman for less than a year, we met during the fall.... she basically sits with me in class and the professeur in my class always has to give me the Evil Eye because shit is always funny when im with this woman. i didnt know too much about her, except for the fact that she looks way younger than the age i think she is, and her accent is heavy doused with foreignness. She is cute, short and petit, My nickname for her is Fun Size, but apart from nicknames and school stuff ,we never ever really hung out.... well until this semester, when she suggested hanging out during the little freetime we always have before classes begin. it did start out innocently, or atleast i thought it was innocent, until we started having grown up talks (if you know what i mean *wink wink*)... well, she let it slip that she cant put a finger on what it is that she finds attractive about me... and i did relay that i thought it was cute of her and i thought she was cute too.... but here is the problem... i also found out that she was Married, has two kids which are 4 and 5 years old. this is basically her second degree, she got her first one from NYU. and she did tell me that even though she was married, she felt it was one of her biggest mistakes she made as a life choice.... (yeah i know what you guys are thinking, you guys are like, this Nigga is always involved with someone else's Woman, well you probably might be wrong in this situation)
i just found out she was married because she has never worn her wedding ring to class or anywhere that i have seen her. sooo that marriage issue is a big problem for me, sha.


Scenario 3:
hmmmm, i have known this girl for a good while, i dont speak to her as often as i should, but whenever we talk, it could go on for days if someone's phone battery doesnt die out. we are very much alike, maybe because we are born under the same Zodiac sign, maybe we just click just because, maybe if i whole heartedly believed in soulmates she would be the closest thing to mine. Around her, im fully myself, i am comfortable but yet, she also challenges me to be better than the present me that i am. We have a good amount of history together, no matter who i have been talking to, she has always been in the foreground. if i were to make a short list of people i would want to be stuck on an island with, she would be on all my short list. i believe we are still very much attracted to each other, and we can build a relationship together if we ever decided too.
but the problem is........
we are hella busy, she stays about 20 mins away from me, but we probably see eachother probably once in a month if anything, We usually have to plan like 3 weeks in advance to make sure our schedules coincide for us to be able to meet. she has a whole lot of stuff going on, and im proud that she is about her business. she is applied for her PhD and she got into 4 different schools of her choosing, though her school of choice is 5 hours away by airplane, and 14hrs by Car.... we have both agreed that we cant really handle long distance relationships, because i just dont think those things work. Plus im the kind of BF that likes to see his GF atleast 2 to 3 times a fucking Week, call me needy, call me possessive, call me Psycho, but thats just usually how i am. Soo this wouldnt really work. 


Sooo, as you see, these are Just Scenarios that Falling in love is really not an Option.